Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Fast paced girl

I should mention that on my birthday of the year we met, a month after me and my husband did it in the parking lot of the bar, I told him that he needed to propose by my next birthday because i had all intentions of being married on 11/11/11. He gave me this dumbfounded look like I just asked him for a kidney. On a side note, at the time we met he was going through a divorce, and I wasn't gonna wait around to be his rebound when i had shit to do.
The first time he told me he loved me and i believed him and knew he really meant it. We had gone on a date and we were sitting in his car and he ask me to tell him something about myself, a stupid quirk that i had. I looked at him and said " I don't eat boxed mashed potatoes because I don't understand them"
"what?"
"I don't understand how you can go from a real potato, to corn flake looking things and its supposed to be real mashed potatoes, they confuse me so i don't eat them."
At that point he looked at me and i thought he was gonna say " you are the biggest retard i have ever met!" but instead he said "I love you!"
"what?"
"I love you"
I wasn't ready to say it back, so i just kissed him
The first time I told him I loved him, I had gone out a dance club with my girlfriends and was just having kinda a crappy night and i was texting him, he is a hunter and loves to get up at 3 am drive an hour to his perfect woods, set up his tree stand and sit there until dawn, i think he is an idiot for this but then again i don't understand fake mashed potatoes. So it was last call and I hadn't heard from him in a while and as i was walking to my car, and there he is leaning against my car. Maybe it was the massive amounts of alcohol, but i hugged him and told him i loved him. I think we did it in the parking lot of that bar too that night.
He was always a random romantic, our first new years which was only 2 months after we met, myself and a friend who always promised to never be alone on nye had made plans. Soon to be hubby, said he was gonna hang around his volunteer fire station and take calls. My friend decided to to her own thing and ditch me until 11:00 which is ok, cause it wasn't midnight, however i was beyond pissed off that she didn't call me till 10:45 when we had already made plans. So we go to the bar and get crappy seats for the band that I love, and she is there with her date, and her date's brother and wife. I was totally the 5th wheel. at 11:45 after being ignored i decided that i would much rather spend nye at home with my parents (who were probably already in bed) than being ignored by everyone, so I left. On the way home future husband (who we will call MM) calls me and says "I;m about to go to sleep I just wanted to say good night and happy new year"
I am almost in tears cause this is the worst new years ever! All i could muster up "was happy new year, I'll talk to you tomorrow. Goodnight"
We hang up
2 seconds later he calls back:
"whats wrong?"
"I'm just really disappointed in tonight, I'm already on my way home."
"I'm sorry, I wish I was there, it'll be ok, I'll talk to you tomorrow."
That was it, as I pull into the subdivision and turn on my street I see his car, he was on his way to the bar to meet me cause i was having such a bad time, so he just waited at my house for me until I got there. We decided to jump in the car and go to our friends house about 20 mins away. Our first new years kiss was in the car pulled over on the side of the road so we didn't miss it. It was the best new years kiss ever......

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