so i haven't been blogging much because alot has been going on. We ended up having to take 12 to a psych eval because she said she was hearing voices tell her to do stuff and she was worthless and wish she didn't exist anymore.
so what they said it that she is acting out for attention because mommy is a deadbeat low life who doesn't give a fuck about them and only uses them to get her $100 child support. because she get them every weekend. Needless to say 12 has mommy issues and decided to take them out of everyone in the house including me. She had stolen something out of my purse at which point i got in her face and told her if she was 27 or i was 12 i would punch her in the face, however i cant touch her but i can make her work. So i made her get on her hands and knees and scrub the kitchen floor, then when she was finished i made her do it again. Then when she was half way done I took eye liner and i wrote my name and drew a picture a throw back to her writing in nail polish on the wall then like a week later drawing on the wall. That when she started to car and said I'm gonna have to do it all over again, then i said "I'm sorry, so its OK" so she cleaned it again. Then she ran out of wipes but thankfully I had a three pack of the Lysol wipes, so I made her clean it again which she responded back that she was tired, all i said was I'm tired too, of your bullshit, so she cleaned it again, then i made her go to bed. She is now seeing a therapist and has become a different person.
Then we started having trouble with 14, she hid her brothers book bag to get him in trouble, the finally admitted to doing things like hiding her stuff in her sisters dresser to add to her getting in trouble. then she had stolen a book bag and cellphone out of an 8th graders locker, the was caught by her principal and lied to her, then came home and lied to her dad and I about doing it. If i did this when i was 14 my mom and or dad would have spanked me, or paddled me, or slapped me across the face. These kids have no respect for anyone or anythings property cause no one taught them too. This is the mess I get cause of the deadbeat mom who only cared about herself and her TV.
So all of this bullshit has been causing problems between be and my husband who works and teaches full time and i left at home with the baby the these 3 bay bay kids.
